I like myself here, she said softly. We wrote about painting because she painted. It was as if 98percent of her hair had fallen out, but somehow in the process, it had felted. She picked up and sailed off to the Caribbean when someone needed an extra boat hand. The world asks us to engage, and for the most part we can, but given the choice wed rather stay home. Writers still came and spent the night; bookstore events were still packed. Everything was tremendously present tense for Sooki. No one could keep up with her. You had it here all this time? The coat wasnt the way I had remembered it. I could already see her tumbling down the street. The CA 19-9 had gone from 2,100 to 470. . We call it the VanDevender Home for Wayward Girls. At her first meeting with Hanks, Patchett also met his personal assistant, Sooki Raphael, whose unusual evening coat, its huge peonies . I had told her the make of my car, and she waved when I pulled up in front of the airport. Its undeniable that money and privilege are a great help. I could have forgotten Sooki altogether in that moment, because even though I followed her story with interest, it was one of many stories. We were in the middle of a pandemic. Sooki had brought her computer with her. Many were the mornings the yoga felt endless to me, and so I would give her a wave as I left the mat and headed off to my desk. Most of the writers and artists I know were made for sheltering in place. Now I look like an improvised elementary school art project, and in addition to owning my permanent tattoos, I have to nurture my three little stickers and hand-drawn sharpie marks so they last six weeks. The car was taking me into yellow, not a field of yellow but into the color itself. A year and a half had passed since I had picked up his book in my office, and this was where it had taken me: Tom Hanks was willing to read The Dutch House. Up and down the street the lights clicked off; our house went dark. Hows the painting going? She took off her cap to show me the damage. He's really interesting. If I knew nothing about Sooki before she arrived, I knew very little more three weeks later when we were spending all of our days together. Maybe Niki was right about my life being different, but maybe thats because I tend to think of things in terms of story: I pick up a book and read it late into the night, and because I like the book, I wind up on a flight to D.C. We had never spoken on the phone. Even as Sookis white count continued to hover in the neighborhood of nonexistent, her CA 19-9 cancer marker number (that unreliable indicator we relied on) was dropping. New This Week; Available Now; Plant Types Add a Profile More Hide Episodes Title Year Update Role Assistant: Mr. Hanks Bridge of Spies (2015) Motion Picture Assistant: Tom Hanks Saving Mr. Banks (2013) Motion Picture Assistant: Mr. Hanks Cloud Atlas (2012) Motion Picture Assistant: Mr. Hanks Larry Crowne (2011) Motion Picture Assistant: Tom Hanks No doubt if Tom Hanks and Ann Patchett believe their friend to possess such wonderful qualities, she probably is a saint. What Sooki is, Tom wrote to me in an email later, is all that is good in the world.. Would it even work? I can tell you where it all started because I remember the moment exactly. He got me a can of ginger ale and I tried to eat half a banana. These months of exercise would save me. We both wrote for the New York Times. I wanted Karls comfort and was glad he wasnt there. It becomes a path into the woods. What came out of her brush was a feast of colors and stories that she had kept in her heart for years. I'll see if I can get her into a trial here in Nashville. Every time her mother turned around, Sooki was gone.. Are you serious? Use this bar to access information about the steps in your cancer journey. Ive had a happy life because of her.. So all the other girls went home. And he said, oh, well, ask her if she wants to send me her files. Youve been so nice, but you didnt sign on for this. She stood in the kitchen, holding her cup of ginger tea. My husband, Karl, and I sat in a dressing room with them for an hour and a half between sets. She meant me. How it happened is told in the title story ofThese Precious Days, Patchetts second collection of essays. We went home and baked a spectacular cake that was especially well suited to travel. Would he think to tell me if something had happened? How had she known something was wrong? She left her canvases as colorful as she led her life. And we had the most amazing time. RoseGallery featured Sooki Raphael's work in the past. When undergoing treatment for cancer, looking inward for inspiration can be a very cathartic journey that helps with recovery. It was normal in October, three months postchemo and radiationgreat newsbut then started rising. Sookie paints and paints and paints. Rene Fleming spent two years in Germany studying voice while she was in her twenties. This is the way novelists think: beginning, middle, and end. She met a group of sailors who had sailed around the world. They arent hard to come by around here; my office is made up of piles of books, mostly advance-reader copies that have been sent to me in hopes Ill write a quote for the jacket. It was a shaggy dog of a story by a woman passionate about dogs, touching on a variety of subjects, including her friendship with Tom Hanks assistant Sooki Raphael; Raphaels treatment for cancer; the early days of the coronavirus pandemic; the art and craft of writing; and I kid you not psychedelic mushrooms. Raphael turned to art during a tumultuous time in her life and created works that will continue to be enjoyed long after her passing. There was no hesitation on the canvases, no timidity. Most mornings, Sooki set out in the darkness to walk the two miles to a power-yoga class that started at six-thirty, despite the presence of my car keys on the kitchen counter and explicit instructions to drive. Maybe its the trial, she said, but I think it could just as easily be the food and the yoga.. The Hole Story: The Piddock Clam is a Born Architect. I didnt worry about her embarrassing herself. Are you okay? I asked. She was Tom Hanks's assistant and there was work to do. I can motivate myself without a deadline or a contract. The idea of the considerably longer trip to New York was good news. Figuring out Nashville was small potatoes for someone who had put together a Thanksgiving dinner for a film crew in Berlin. We looked in the car. I have to know where Im going, otherwise I spend my days walking in circles. It took a while to get the mushrooms. He was tall and slim, happily at ease, answering questions, signing books. He wasnt listening. Our conversation was continually derailed by the television hanging over the counter. When youre young youre getting high, and when youre old youre using plant medicine, like herbal insect repellent. For a time, the mother in this novel went to India to work for Mother Teresa. I sent you another book that will show up eventually, a tiny French novel I love called The Lost Estate (Le grand meaulnes) by Alain-Fournier. We love you, Sooki. When Patchett connected with Tom Hanks, who is a fellow author and book lover (among other things! Not everyone is like this. I felt their love for me. we asked. To the best of my knowledge, she never quit. Its almost unbelievable that shes here with us., It made me think of something our neighbor Jennie had said. PATCHETT: Yeah. My friends arrived and we waved at one another from a distance as they gathered Sooki up. Every day Sooki came upstairs looking spectacularembroidered jeans, velvet tops, a different coat, a perfect scarf. And youre going to freeze your head for eight hours every week? Wed been together for a matter of minutes. I sat at my desk for a long time, trying to make sense of this: time when there was no time, and talent all out of proportion to the task. Accuracy and availability may vary. When the event was over and more pictures had been taken and everyone had said how much theyd enjoyed absolutely everything, Tom Hanks and his assistant and I found ourselves alone again, standing at the end of a long cement hallway by a stage door, saying good night and goodbye. The only other option was to go with stickers which could shift or come off in the shower. Id seen her work in action. Thats like the building blocks of my, of my life, Farley told SurvivorNet. I will keep you more closely posted as I move ahead (in the right color shoes). My husband is a doctor, and I was telling him about this one night. Read More The Circle (2017) Assistant Sully (2016) . I pulled up my eye mask. It has to be one of the most extraordinary stories of lockdown how Tom Hanks's assistant Sooki Raphael, undergoing treatment for recurrent pancreatic cancer, came to be living in the basement of the novelist Ann Patchett and her husband Dr Karl VanDevender. On the few mornings she didnt come up at her usual time, I imagined her sick, needing something, not telling me because she didnt want to bother me. Sooki had come to our house thinking shed be staying with someone who was gone half the time and busy the other half of the time. Sooki Raphael leaves her canvas as colorful as she has led her life. But they had survived. I can never quite hear what the person making the introduction is saying, and for a moment I wouldnt be able to tell you the name of the theater or even the city I was in. Forget about the heartfelt letters. And you will be surprised by how comforting it is to be very sick with an actual doctor upstairs. On her last night we sat in my office after yoga and I asked her every last question I could think ofwhen did she work on the documentary about George Romero, and when did she marry Ken? After a while she drifted up to the kitchen, taking a stab at the half of banana I had abandoned. Learn more about SurvivorNet's rigorous medical review process. Had I thought it through, I never would have had the nerve to ask in the first place. Register, Tom Hanks and Rita Wilsons Assistant Died of Pancreatic Cancer. The meeting led to Patchett asking Hanks on a "lark of the highest order" if he would narrate the audio version of her novel The Dutch House the ensuing . The more literary essays include an introduction to the stories of Eudora Welty (No writer I know of tells the truth of the landscape like Welty); pieces on book covers (I finally knew how to ask for what I wanted I would send my books into the world wearing the best suit of clothes I could find); childrens stories; sitting next to John Updike at a lunch at the American Academy of Arts and Letters; and perhaps my favorite, To the Doghouse, on literary influences. We talked about what we were going to make for dinner. I had a concrete reason to be careful about the germs I was bringing into the house. As we worked our way through trying to get contracts signed and making arrangements with the audio producer, our emails became an affectionate exchange. Well, over the next few minutes, we're going to revisit the moment I did admit that there is one author whose books I am guaranteed to gobble up, who I will read every time - Ann Patchett. It took me a few weeks to figure this out but soon I could track it, the way her voice got quieter, the way she was less likely to look me in the eye. Where were you born? One more reason to like Tom Hanks: hes a reader. In the case of The Dutch House, Id started to think about a poor woman who suddenly became rich, and because she was unable to deal with the change in circumstances, she left her family and went to India to follow a guru. In other essays, Patchett extols the enduring influence of John Updike, Saul Bellow and Philip Roth on her own writing; meditates on her friendship with Charlie Strobel, a priest in Nashville whom she calls a living saint; and tries to capture the flavor of her odd-couple relationship with her second husband, Karl, immortalized in the title essay of an earlier collection, This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage. As a medical doctor on staff at the Nashville hospital where Raphael was treated for advanced pancreatic cancer, he plays a crucial role in These Precious Days., Finally, theres that essay. The actor who starred in the romantic movie You've Got Mail sat down and wrote me a letter in his California office in Santa Monica. We laughed at ourselves, at the practice, at the voice that told us we were flowers, we were leopards, but we didnt stop. I was leaving for Virginia. Something happened to it while I was in the shower., She shook her head. View Sooki Raphael's business profile as TH Assistant at Playtone. New book of essays tells story. The paintings were bold, confident, at ease. My whole life Ive wanted this time. How it happened is told in the title story of These Precious Days, Patchett's second collection of essays. There she was in the passenger seat, a shy person with a quiet voice. Im good. . Sookis mother lived two miles from the Westchester airport. Sooki and I shined our flashlights on the smooth bark of the trees that lay across the streets. There were no words because it wasnt about words. Treatments were on Wednesdaysthree Wednesdays on, one Wednesday offwith immunotherapy (the trial) every other week. But it turned out to be a good job, and Tom was a nice guy, and the travel was interesting. As soon as the roaring thunder of approval eased, he pointed at me and said, She doesnt have any questions.. I should have thought of that one myself. Id be grateful if youd pray for her, I said, because while I was uncertain about prayer in general, I believed unequivocally in the power of Sister Nenas prayers. I flew to New York early the next morning, took a car to New Jersey, signed several hundred books, attended a cocktail-party fund-raiser for the Book Industry Charitable Foundation, gave a talk in a crowded town hall, got to my hotel room in Manhattan at midnight, got up in the morning to tape a segment for the Today show, then was back on a plane. The emails wed exchanged could be printed out and slid into a single manila envelope. You could sit with us and read if you wanted, answer emails. It has to do with fearing death. Karl was sitting on the front porch and he called for me to come out. I wrote and she painted and then we made dinner. Want to change your email address or password? Sookis a pilot! Karl said. I couldnt stay upright, a hangover from the last eight hours in which I had been quite memorably deboned. Farleys mother fought two battles with cancer. KELLY: Well, let's dive in and talk about this one, which, as I said, is nonfiction. I desperately wanted to vomit, to turn back time. But I think Ann is the saint in the story. Twenty-five people had been killed in the last round of tornadoes in Nashville, two months before. It was over. Theres usually a guy working the light board and the mics who talks to me for a minute, though tonight the guy talking was Tom Hanks. Had I known she had a husband, might I have assumed that she was taken care of and so not followed the story as closely? There was no hesitation on the canvases, no timidity. Karl had gone back to work by this point, but he canceled his afternoon appointments to drive us to the hangar where my friends kept their plane. There was my grandmother, my father. Of course we could. Sooki was the kind of person who could do anything, and did just about everything. Donations can be made in her name to Pancan.org or Seasave.org/oceanofsooki. 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